Doing chores or wisdom of life

 "Doing chores or wisdom of life 

 It may be that the characteristics (also physical) of women and men, are results of all the time being about to do chores (men) to make the living environment and the wide world good to live in, or caring for wisdom of life (women) in one's own life, in tge living environment and in the society & the world. Both ought to care for both kinds of goals and have lots of experience of them in practical life, for this to work out in practice. 

Does this explain what women and men are like, and why they have the rights and tasks they have? One ought to remember that there is lots of variation between individuals! "

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Where does women's wisdom of lufe come from 

 " Women's Day 8th of March in the spring winter isn't actually a celebration. Instead it is a wish to end the winter cold by women's wisdom if they happen to such have with such an effect too. If a child wants tl be a girl, it is for most or all imporant that one could get a child of one's own and carry it in one's stomach. So the child is asked, do you think that you would be able to care for the child in your stomach so well that it does not die but is healthy and grows like a child ought to, and care for the child when it has born but is still quite youbg, say a few years, and care for your own body and needs so well that you have the strenght and wisdom etc for such and things run well for you, your family and friends, for the social group you live in and also the society and world good for life in the future. And so most women and girls learn to care for such yhings somewhat, have some wisdom of lufe anf common sense and think that such are needed. And so if the world is of spirit, Women's Day in ghe quite early spring can help to end the winter cold and bring spring weathers. 

I guess such is some general wisdom of how is good to live, suited for all, like healthy ways of living and civiliced wisdom, and taking the environment into account, and wishing well in the world - but even mentioning this causes that many try to convince others of the opposite goals as similarly wise advice in life. But it is like a passer-by of a young person or animal saying/thinking "Gees, good ways of doing and taking the environment into account civilicedly, that's life!". Emotional wisdom of life tells whether one feels well or not, so learning wisdom of life about feelings helps in this a lot, but these are complex subjects including wisdom of life, understanding of good ways of doing, of personal differencies, learning, individuality, society level wisdom and one's picture of the world, etc. 

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Boys are not automatically more skilled than girls

 " Some of them maybe mistook boys to be better version of girls or women. It is not so. My impression from healibg skills is that women cultivate wisdom of lufe, because their offspring has to stay alive and grow to have all normal hwalthy features, some 9 months in their stomach, plus they and their nearest be able to care for the needs of at least a young child for a few years, so women cultivate such wisdom, while men are more specialiced to doing needed chores. So boys are not better in everything, but instead may neglect some things needed for life, and so it is not ok to demand all to look alike. "

Boys and men do not always see it as possible to use all perspectives at the same time, as parts of one's picture of the world and one's pictyre of the situation. So a school boy caring for something does not necessarily do it with one's picture of the world along, and so for example many military kinds of goals are not fitted to be ok in the world, not ok for army's purpose when wisely looking at things. So such things do not get as years pass fitted better to the society, world etc, since those are not aimed to respect civiluced values, civiluced wisdom, common sense like picture of the world, healthy wisdom of lufe, the aim to get major proportilbs at least roughly well for future lufe in the world and in the society, etc. 

I do not know, what causes the problem. It does not seem to be a lack of potential intellectual capacity. It looks like some weird routes of thinkkng, maybe somewhat like engineer oriented boys trying to figure out how to get a child of their own : with this obe not but maybe with that one that way or with the other one near by as if of that kind, and then via some excuse try to get along with a third woman passing by, or with men, etc, and it being so false that it jyst makes no sense, and the resulting kind of figure pantomime makes one guess that many of the suppised women were in fact transvestites, figuring out this and tgat word or criterio to be classified women or potential sexual partner, but without such making sense from the point of view of the dimensions of such affairs in women's lives : did you like the man enough to spend at least ten years to first pregnancy and then childcare, and did you associate in ways that were good for lufe, caring for the needs of the future family members, of life in the society, the future of the children, of the woman, you too getting along, etc, or did some harm take the place of new life possible, did some malicious deed communicate that life togeyher and family lufe would be unbearable in the long run, was the thing anything more than a trap, if not then you aren't gonna get any children that way. To be clear, love marriage seems the only ok way to get a family, since even without any problems and with civiluced ways and wisdom of lufe supporting, a family is lot of work, so say just about all. But why does it end up such an artificial tangle, is it homo boys and homo men planning cannibalism, eating many women, especially those whom they do not so value sexually or as having similar social style. 

Do the rigid engineering like stuck ways of many men, which I guess make it so difficult to repair working life toward better, so that many men maybe are in some way suicidal, are these rigid ways consequences of the plans to not to show, which women one likes and whom not at all, and so the ways do not show what one likes and so it becomes much more difficult to change jobs to the kind of jobs one likes or likes most. 

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For transvestites about social ways

 I guess that quite many who feel inclined toward being a transvestite, have misinterpreted quite many social ways.

If someone tends to come momentarily clise to you when you seem interested in women's clothes or the like, it is usually because they consider clothes a hobby typical to many women, so they come momentarily to say that if you are interested in clothes, here is one piece of fabric, is that what you like? So you are offered such glimpses like to a child interested in something in which the child or beginner does not have much such experidnce. So it is öike a hobby, and it is not allowed behavipur otherwise, for example simple by wearing women's clothes, since it is behaviour of the teacher or more experienced dtudent of a hlbby group toward a passer-by interested in having such a hobby. 

If someone made an impression on you by being of the opposite sex and coming close, it is a sexual relation between you two. It isn't some general right of all of the opposite gender to dominate over your own sex. So if you change gender, you do not gain any of such rights toward anyone. If you find a new date that clearly likes you as a date, that is a sexual situation, but such propably does not change from the old times. Someone us dominant if you like such company, such strenghrs and such wsy of being social, such types of people. It isn't so toward all. Because you felt it to be natural, you did not resist like people resist those they do not want near. And so your social environment coukd not help you out of it, it was your feelings toward him and the experience of others says that they cannot stop it in the future either  since you just react to him ss if did matter a lot what he did or said etc, and did not care so much about others, so you were just close by your own feelings, which means that you somehow liked such life more than just passing by, you felt that you wanna learn sich lufe skills or have such company. And so it is no right of you to dominate over anyone or to go clise to anyone. There are also other reasons why people interest, like for examole kuds and ypunger generation, news etc in the medua, many kinds of things that people do for a professiln, and it surely does not mean that you had any right yo claim yourself right to be clise to them or have any right over them, even if you guess that if you change gender you would be more interesting to yourself. 

What clothes to wear and what style of things to use, depends on the person and on the situation. Basic advice is that the clithes should fit the lufe you wanna live and be ok for the things done. So then there is the wuestion if style. If one has infoors just table, stools and square forms and straight lines, that typically isn't good for the kntellect or for feeling well. So one would need more complex forms that are good for the intellect and good for things done. Straight lines and square forms aren't good for the need of varuation in life. So many long for something which would make lufe work well, like music, some green plants on window, a carpet, a sofa or a good stool, maybe some picture on walls etc. Of these there are many kibds, so what woukd be good for you? Often one's hobbies and other liked things are good at home. Sometimes lufe us so scarce that one needs lots of nice things at home. Then it comed to whether those look so good idea in the eyes of others or at times with fifferent kind of life. If there is some art or slowly done handiworks at home, it may happen that it sliws down life, and so one sometimes would throw away much of it or just put it on the storage, and so one coukd gain a clearer more speedy head. So how much do you need each area of lufe and what is the good skill level, vuewpoint, values etc? Similarly of social ways. There isn't a certain one option for all. Most like for example a sofa and some music, nice clothes etc. If others do not offer them to you, you have to take care of such by yourself, which is tupical situation for women. 

Eino Leino's poems in English

 "A few famous poems by Eino Leino", translated by Kaisa Hannele Tervola, https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CFCX6W85?ref_=pe_3052080_397514860

Women's position is an important subject for transvestites etc

 Women's position is important for transvestites etc too. Read https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2023/01/womens-position-like-that-of-others.html